Soulmate and Life Partner

one of the frequently asked questions is the "Is Life Partner and Soulmate can be different?" and everybody has their own answers to satisfy their soul!

My opinion is somewhat different.

Soulmate and life partner are separate. The most interesting behaviour of the soul is choosing the life partner. Because I feel, soul compromises to get the life partner. 

What is the soul? The soul is an internal world which separates you from this existing, material world where people, society decides what is right and what is wrong. But every individual has the own perception which he/she believes in. This leads to satisfaction which can be anything in the world, a feeling, an activity or anything and origin of that satisfaction is your soul! When you are working on something you really like and want to do you forget to eat, though "Hunger is an essential need". In other cases, you can't control hunger to the certain extent. the reasoning soul!!

In routine life, you try to find satisfaction in your activities. At the same time, these activities are shared with other souls. From all these souls your soul tries to find out which soul is more satisfied when you come together that is what people called instinct! and this process helps you to find out your life partner. Life partner is the choosing the soul which is the most important attribute of your soul.The attribute which your soul emphasise the most.

The soul is the happiness of satisfaction. Every soul has its own right to be happy. so there is no perfect SOULMATE can exist because there are so many. one may like reading one really don't,  one can happy in theatres other may choose seashore. It is very rare to find you meet the 100% compatible but 100% compatibility also of no use because when you are in trouble how other will help you out? You both may lose your courage to fight against the trouble. So,
Have different soul-mates or say simply, friends. tea friend who will be the perfect soulmate but for a particular activity that is To drink a tea, similarly have a movie mate, book a friend, and so on... that will keep your soul happy. and life partner is the replacement of your all mates/friends when they are not available.

We found many people in relationships around us. But most of the times relationships end up with the compromise. why this happens? We can break any relations easily until it involves love. So the marriage. But the love is the other name of sacrifices and compromises. When one feels another became a more dominant in the relationship, the relation becomes burden and cracks of the emotions breaks that relationship over the period of time.

Though the love is full of compromises of the likes, habits, etc., we choose to love. We complain after loving. When this compromise becomes harassment we say, 'we lost our love!.' Beyond compromises love is a habit. It is the addiction of the person whom you are in love. That addiction is let you compromise. If you can get rid off your addiction, you can get rid of the love. 

An interesting aspect of life, We live for others. We earn for others. Finally, we give up everything for others. Directly or indirectly. But when it comes to love we demand from others. The common thought is someone should love me more than I can but, we never ever think that I will love more than one can do, generously. And that's how expectations exceed demand and a fracture of emotional atrocity fractures the relationship.

The best example of the successful relationship is mother and child. Where selfless love for a child of a mother never gets lost. Because A mother is more happy to love her child. That happiness is a real demand of soul.


What soul demands?
The happiness. Because Ultimately whatever we are doing is to make happy our own soul. It could be anything, something basic like eating food or something deeper like spirituality. And love is also the part of grabbing happiness from external forces.

The soul needs happiness. In the search of permanent happiness, we look for a life partner who can become a soulmate. Forever. What we search? A person mostly of an opposite sex, Some similar habits so that we can share most of the habits, sometimes more humorous, etc. So the ideal life-partner cum soulmate is the search of the social showpiece, with some common taste.

"The soulmate is one who can share the particular moment with you." It simply means every moment has its own owner. When we experienced the one owner for many moments we presume the end of the search of a life partner cum soulmate. But That is not true. Because it is the first compromise.

The real happiness is when the moment gets a perfect share-mate. Until that soul will be unhappy. One would say that the presence of life partner makes the moment perfect and happy. Then why a bottle of a beer need a friend to toast with? Because the friend is the owner for that beer moment.

In my opinion to find out a life partner who can be your soulmate is wrong. And it never works. Rather it is the easiest task to convince yourself that the life partner and soulmate can't be one. That is how expectations reduced to reality. This will help to bond with the life partner and improve relationships.